tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post5557843891117030914..comments2023-10-25T21:02:04.269+07:00Comments on ~: The PushoverInaya Rakhmanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03970983737636872692noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post-51540071421897142182011-04-16T03:13:48.928+07:002011-04-16T03:13:48.928+07:00pushover, i have no problem with it :)
perhaps it ...pushover, i have no problem with it :)<br />perhaps it depends how much you push ;)<br />yes. co-writing is allowed, thanks!Merlynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10530066271733015761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post-15780340363752128242011-04-12T22:50:05.298+07:002011-04-12T22:50:05.298+07:00Teh Mer, I do react differently in different conte...Teh Mer, I do react differently in different context. But the general trend remains 'the pushover'. Yes! I am planning to submit an article to IIJ with Endah Triastuti (Titut). I hope co-writing is allowed.Inaya Rakhmanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03970983737636872692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post-59330246817399121292011-04-12T05:05:42.612+07:002011-04-12T05:05:42.612+07:00i understand where you came from. you're right...i understand where you came from. you're right, all of us is a product of how we're raised. i, too, tend to internalize anger and apologize to deal with conflicts, even when i know i don't do anything wrong (and more so when i feel guilty). yet, life experience can lead us to a slightly different place. i found myself reacted differently, albeit only a slight, recently... and people Merlynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10530066271733015761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post-81825455850934199842011-03-17T19:35:05.900+07:002011-03-17T19:35:05.900+07:00Yes, exactly. I think both approaches are needed i...Yes, exactly. I think both approaches are needed in different contexts or cases. I find it hard to disagree with any of your opinions.Inaya Rakhmanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03970983737636872692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28531491.post-3937096486217458612011-03-17T03:39:33.825+07:002011-03-17T03:39:33.825+07:00Of course you're: good manners and a gentle ap...Of course you're: good manners and a gentle approach is the civilized way. Admittedly it is hard to always stick to that kind of behaviour. Well, to me it is. Yet you are absolutely right; apart from bad manners, being rude and aggressive usually is counter-productive most of the times also.<br /><br />However sometimes, just sometimes one or two bullies should not have their way. Perhaps colsonhttp://www.pelopor.nlnoreply@blogger.com